Do we love others because we like their qualities, whether physical or mental? Or is it possible to love someone “for themselves alone”? Are some people ‘more lovable’ than others? Discuss this question, considering points like the following. (i) a parent or caregiver’s love for a newborn baby, for a mentally or physically challenged child, for a clever child or a prodigy (ii) the public’s love for a film star, a sportsperson, a politician, or a social worker (iii) your love for a friend, or brother or sister (iv) your love for a pet, and the pet’s love for you.
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Source: TextbookWhile many people love others for their qualities—like beauty, talent, or kindness—it is also possible to love someone simply “for themselves alone.” For example, a parent’s love for a newborn baby or a child with physical or mental challenges is not based on achievements or looks, but on deep, unconditional affection. Similarly, we may admire a film star or sportsperson for their skills, but that love can fade if their fame does. True love, like that for a close friend or sibling, often goes beyond appearances or success—it is built on shared moments and loyalty. Our love for a pet is another example. Pets do not have special talents or beauty, but we still love them deeply, and they love us back without judgment. So yes, while some people may seem “more lovable,” real love is often unconditional and based on who a person truly is, not just what they offer.
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